All of the above & I am also trying to survive domestic abuse from alcoholic husband, with complex mental health issues & NPD, anger issues & childhood trauma, irrational behaviours & patterns, zero emotional intelligence or self awareness. Selfish
Zero accountability, will say sorry every now then but continue the behaviours.words & action don’t align.
Flips the script & name calls, plays the victim,
post separation abuse, financial abuse, manipulation, Coercive control, threats & intimidation, lies & gaslighting, smear campaigns stalking, emotional & psychological abuse & property damage, just trying to keep myself & our daughter safe by setting firm boundaries, with no help from the police,
Police have told me that he is not yielding an axe at the front door they don’t want to know about it, go home & deal with it, all relationships have their issues, all other victims services, DVO officers domestic violence hotline counsellors & psychologists have given me validation & believe that what I have gone through & continue to experience is all abuse.